Wednesday, August 25, 2010



刘力扬- Li Wu lyrics

终于可以在今天划上句点

一整夜翻阅过去画面

快想不起我们为何会诀别
只看到那双你送的鞋


走一步又一步

我才发现绕了个圈

走了好几年又回到原点

*你送的礼物会不会太特别

毫不避讳那不安的传言

但渐行渐远习惯到没感觉

难道你早想要我走远



你送的礼物在此刻好体贴

陪我回忆把过往走一遍

穿了这些年难免会有污点

就像每段爱总会有终点

世上最残酷的恐怕是时间

困住人一切却还向前

干涸的眼再挤不出一点咸

爱到如此可悲的境界

走一步又一步

却跟不上你的脚步

你满意了为什么我却只想要哭

repeat * to*

你说做自己吧我们都做回自己哦~

不要再为爱受委屈

你送的礼物原来是一场劫

终于分别夙命一样准确

可笑到想要你赔给我时间

爱情有时廉价得可怜

光著脚我一路奔跑鲜血

泪水一路狂飙

收起我的骄傲

承认曾经备受煎熬
鞋上那记号只有你能明了

过了这一夜我就全忘掉


Sunday, August 22, 2010

爱 的感觉,总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜,

总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担,

你终於不再孤单了,至少有一个人想著你、

恋著你,不论做什么事情,

只要能一起,就是好的....



..... 但是慢慢的,随著彼此的认识愈深,

  你开始发现了对方的缺点,

  於是问题一个接著一个发生,

  你开始烦、累,甚至想要逃 避,

  有人说爱情就像在捡石头,

  总想捡到一个适合自己的,

  但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢?

  他/她适 合你,那你又适合他/她吗?

  

其实,爱情就像磨石子一样,

或许刚捡到的时候,你不是那么的满意,

但是记住人是 有弹性的,

很多事情是可以改变的,

只要你有心、有勇气,

与其到处去捡未知的石头,

还不如好 好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮,你开始磨了吗?

很多人以为是因为感情淡了,

所以人 才会变得懒惰。



错!

其实是人先被惰性征服,

所以感情才会变淡的。

   

在某个聚餐的场合,

有人提议多吃点虾对身体好,

这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前,当我老婆还是我的 女朋友的时候,她说要吃十只虾,我就剥二十只给她!

现在,如果她要我帮她剥虾壳,开玩笑!我连帮她脱衣服 都没兴趣了,还剥虾壳咧!」



听到了吗?明白了吗?

  

难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱,

却迟迟不肯走入 婚姻。

因为,婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。

  

如果每个人都

懒得讲话、

懒得倾听、

懒得制造惊喜、

懒得温柔体贴,

那么夫妻或是情人之间,

又怎么会不渐行渐远渐 无声呢?

 
*所以请记住:

  有活力的爱情,

  是需要适度殷勤灌溉的,

  谈恋爱,更是不可以偷懒的 喔!

  

有一对情侣,相约下班後去用餐、逛街,

可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了,

当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟 到了30多分钟,

他的男朋友很不高兴的说:

你每次都这样,现在我甚么心情也没了,

我以後再也不会等你了!

刹那间,女孩终於决堤崩溃了,

她心里在想:或许,他们再也没有未来了

  

同样的在同一个地点,另一对情侣也面临同样的 处境;

女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头,

他的男朋友说:「我想你一定忙坏了吧!」

接著他为女孩拭去脸上 的雨水,并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上,

此刻,女孩流泪了

但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨 的。



你体会到了吗?

其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间!

爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时,

很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了!



懂了吗?

当有个人爱上你,而你也觉得他不错。

那并不代表你会选择他。

   

我们总说:「我要找一个自己很爱很爱的人,才会谈恋爱。」

但是当对方 问你,怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候,

你却无法回答他,因为你自己也不知道。

  

没错,我们总是以为,我们会找 到一个自己很爱很爱的人。

可是後来,当我们猛然回首,我们才会发觉自己曾经多么 天真。

假如从来没有开始,你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢?

其实,很爱很爱的感觉,是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。

或许每个人都希望能够 找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣,

但是你有没有想过『在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你 付出很久了,只是你没发觉而已呢?』

所以,还是仔细看看身边的人吧!他或许已经等你很久了

   

  当你爱一个人的时候,爱到八分绝对刚刚好。

  所有的期待和希望都只有七八分;剩下两三分用来爱自己。

   如果你还继续爱得更多,很可能会给对方沉重的压力,让彼此喘不过气来,

  完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。

   

所以请记住,

喝酒不要超过六分醉,

吃饭不要超过七分饱,

爱一个人不要超过八分

  

如果你也正在为爱迷惘,或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示:

  
爱一个 人,要了解,也要开解;

要道歉,也要道谢;

要认错,也要改错;

要体贴,也要体谅;

是接受,而不是忍受;

是宽容,而不是纵容;

是支持,而不是支配;

是慰问,而不是质问;

是倾诉,而不是控诉;

是难忘,而不是 遗忘;

是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代;

是为对方默默祈求,

而不是向对方诸多要求;

可以浪漫,但不要浪费;


   `*不要随便牵手,

   `*更不要随便放手

i've read this over and over again,
from front to back, back to front
No matter how many times and i still tear whenever i read it.
sigh!!!
Things just changed
like one of my friend said, what's done is done, what's gone is gone
no matter what happens,
no one can ever go back to the past.
the feeling is just so different now.
now i can laugh, the next minute i can cry just like that
whenever im alone, even with friends, my tears will drop automatically
is it a sign!!!?
but i've not regreted whatever the decision is now.
because i'm truly deeply love him!
what i can do now is do whatever he wants me to do.
Be happy!
Love myself more!
Be strong!
Hang out with friends!
etc...
i will try my best to work on it
i hope he can too
i wish he can see that and feel it.

i know its a tough tough situation for me now
but i know i can get through it
because this is what i want the most
and most importantly
i have someone who are there for me whenever im so down
you know who you are :)

Friday, August 20, 2010

Oh it's Friday again



Attended a talk today before my class starts
it was a great talk by Geoff Andrew
i was told be my friend, Stephanie (president of the toastmaster club in Taylor's University College), he achieved the higher level in the toastmaster as a good speaker...something like that..cant remember what she said his position are already:)
My Apple Yogood from baby :)
Stephanie, i forgot his name, Geoff Andrew, the speaker
Then after class, i thought of going out with baby, but he need to go gym and help out his friend after that, sigh!!! so i come to Starbucks alone :(
watching drama here and online abit...i didnt manage to finish my cake as i didnt really have the appetite now owh!! im having gastric , i think=S
and oh i camwhore abit :D

Get myself a cup of Hot chocolate and a piece of cake





Friday, August 6, 2010

I really wish i have a big heart

Classic Hot Chocolate doesn't warm up my heart as what i thought....deep down in my heart i feel so lost.
I wish i have a big heart and everything will be seems fine to me. 
Indeed, i don't have, i'm just a very very ordinary girl, what you expect from me?
I not only will feel happy, excited or being loved
That's not my only emotion.
I will get jealous;
I will get frustrated;
I will get mad;
I will worry;
I will get disappointed;
I will get hurt....etc
All is because i'm just a normal girl
You don't care doesn't mean i don't care!
Don't you ask me why i care so much,when there is nothing i can worry about.
It's just like asking you why do you eat!
It's the same, it comes naturally the feeling : (

Monday, August 2, 2010

Goodbye my holidays , welcome my second sem!

A trip to Genting two days back!!

It's saturday but i'd never see genting so pack before, more than 3 travelling bus (bus seat is all FULL-so many tourist =0), Hotel Room ALL FULL, Jockey car park ALL FULL, Hotels Car Park almost FULL, luckly we found a parking lot after 1 hour (more or less)..OMG can u imagine that!!! ._.

OK~what we do there is just starbuck-ing, to suck the air because the temperature down here is way so HOT, like oven, and CAMWHORE like mad!! *wink

At first when we reach there, i still can don't wear my jacket, but after we chilled in starbucks, we decided to walk around and grab some photos, the weather suddenly change to mad cold!!! plus its raining~ Ohmygee!!!three of us are freezing and shaking dy!! but me love : )

Since it's raining, and we have nothing much to do and places to go, so we head off and decided to have our dinner at Restaurant Sai Gong @ Kepong.

Let the photos do the talking : )
Me & baby : )
Baby , me and momoko!
LET' S JUMP!!!
: D
Me
Vince T
Kimmy & Gerald ( Lovely birds)
<3
Yeap that's two days back!!!
Say goodbye to my holidays and welcome my second sem!!
oh wait, i've got one more place havent go which is beach..how sad!!!: (
that is the sad thing, the happy thing is im planning to go singapore and beach after the sem =p
hahaha i know i know, still got so long to go..but that's what is on my mind now.You have to plan first right atleast!hehe

Okay! back to now,today first class is Introduction to Finance
 its a new subject for me, i dunno whether i can cope it or not, but i will try my very best :)
i find it quite interesting i hope it won't turn me down for the coming lectures...